Dating App Prices Compared: Is Premium Worth It?

Entry No. 020 ·

In a busy student union café, four friends of about nineteen and twenty, two young women and two young men in plain T-shirts, hoodies and jeans, share a table of coffees in plain cups. One woman holds up her phone in a deep rose pink case, screen towards her, while the other three lean in to look, laughing, as if weighing up a decision together. No signs or menu boards are in view; warm afternoon light.

By The IF Team

Tinder, Hinge, Bumble and Grindr all let you match and message for free, and each sells a ladder of subscriptions on top: Tinder Plus, Gold and Platinum; Hinge+ and HingeX; Bumble Boost, Premium and Premium+; Grindr XTRA and Unlimited. IF, the dating app we make, lets you say how you feel to anyone, single or taken, and charges nothing for Likes, matching and chat, for receiving and revealing an IF, or for your first IF. Dating app prices depend on your country, how long you sign up for and whichever offer is running when you look, so no single price list is reliable. Premium is worth it only when it removes one specific limit you keep hitting. It is not worth it as a general hope that paying will make dating work.

If you have hovered over an upgrade screen late at night, wondering whether a subscription is what stands between you and a good date, you are not being gullible: upgrade screens are built to sell, and at that hour the question feels more urgent than it is. The useful question is narrower: what exactly is in your way, and does a paid tier remove it? Sometimes the honest answer is not a limit at all but one particular person, already in your life, single or taken. The big four are built for meeting new people, and IF does that too; it is also built for telling that one person how you feel, whatever the timing, with nothing opening between you until you are both single.

What each app gives free, and what it charges for

This is what each app gives free and what the paid tiers add — Hinge’s and Bumble’s as of October 2026, Tinder’s and Grindr’s as of September 2026: the features, not the figures, which depend on where you are. Each higher tier includes everything beneath it, though features vary by country and change without notice, so check the upgrade screen before you buy.

  • Tinder: swiping, matching and messaging are free. Tinder Plus, Tinder Gold and Tinder Platinum add unlimited likes, seeing who has liked you and ways to be seen sooner. Super Likes and Boosts are also sold one at a time.
  • Hinge: free members get a limited number of likes each day. Hinge+ removes the limit and shows you everyone who likes you; HingeX adds priority for your likes. Roses, Hinge’s way of signalling stronger interest, are sold separately.
  • Bumble: free to swipe, match and chat, with a daily cap on swipes. Bumble Boost, Premium and Premium+ add, step by step, unlimited swipes, a list of everyone who has already liked you, more filters and more visibility. SuperSwipes and Spotlights are also sold one at a time.
  • Grindr: free, with ads and a limited grid. XTRA removes third-party ads and shows you more profiles; Unlimited adds privacy features such as Incognito. Boosts are sold separately.
  • IF, the app we make: Likes, matching and chat are free, and so are receiving and revealing IFs, your first IF, and switching off Discoverable in Search, so nobody finds you by your email, phone or handle. While either of you is in a relationship, you can send a sealed IF and nothing else, and no chat opens before you are both single. The IF plan adds seeing who likes you, an intro message with your Likes, more IFs, taking back an unrevealed IF and Priorities split into Needs and Wants; IFinity adds Incognito, which takes you out of Swipe, and Travel Mode. Our membership page has the details.

For how the apps differ beyond their paywalls, our guide to Tinder, Bumble, Hinge and Grindr compares how each one works, and where IF fits.

Your price, not the price in an article

Most price comparisons print a neat table of monthly figures, then note that the numbers vary. They vary a great deal: prices are set country by country, longer plans usually cost less per month, and offers come and go. A figure copied from someone else’s phone, in someone else’s city, tells you little about yours, so here is how to find your real number before you commit.

  1. Open the app’s listing in your phone’s store. On an iPhone, the In-App Purchases section lists the most popular subscriptions and their prices where you live; on Android, the About section shows the range of in-app prices.
  2. Open the upgrade screen inside the app. This is the price you would actually be charged, including any offer you are shown.
  3. Put every option on the same footing: convert weekly or yearly figures to a monthly cost for the same plan length before you compare.
  4. Note what renews, and when. A long plan is cheaper per month but charged up front, and every plan renews automatically unless you cancel.

Two minutes of this will tell you more than any published figure.

What premium can buy, and what it cannot

Strip away the branding and almost every paid feature on every app falls into one of five kinds.

  • Volume: more likes or swipes than the free version allows.
  • Information: seeing who has already liked you, or who has viewed you.
  • Visibility: boosts, spotlights and priority, which put you in front of more people for a while.
  • Control: extra filters, and the ability to set your location somewhere else.
  • Privacy and comfort: incognito modes, unsending, and no ads.

Each of those can be worth money in the right situation. None changes who is on the app where you live, how your photos come across, or whether the people you like want what you want. Visibility is also the hardest to judge afterwards, because you cannot tell which matches you would have had anyway. Our explainer on how dating app algorithms work covers what the apps say about who gets shown to whom.

Tinder Gold vs Platinum, and where Plus fits

The three tiers sell different kinds of help: Plus sells volume, Gold sells information, and Platinum sells visibility. As of September 2026, Tinder’s own guide to its subscriptions breaks the ladder down like this.

  • Tinder Plus: unlimited likes, unlimited Rewinds to undo your last swipe, Passport to swipe in another city before you arrive, and no ads.
  • Tinder Gold: everything in Plus, with See Who Likes You, so you can match straight from a grid of people who have already liked you, plus a small allowance of Super Likes and Boosts.
  • Tinder Platinum: everything in Gold, with Priority Likes, which help your likes reach people sooner than those sent without a subscription, though Tinder says it cannot guarantee they are seen.

Gold, the information tier, is built for people who already receive likes and want to find them without swiping past strangers. Platinum, the visibility tier, is aimed at people whose likes seem to vanish, and visibility is the hardest thing to buy, because being seen sooner does not make anyone more interested. If you get few matches on the free version, the fix is more often your photos and profile than your plan; our guide to why you might not be getting matches walks through the usual causes.

Is Hinge+ worth it?

It depends on how often you hit the limit it removes. Hinge’s free version is built around scarcity on purpose: a limited number of likes each day, each one placed on a specific photo or prompt, often with a comment. The limit is the point. It pushes you to choose rather than skim.

As of October 2026, Hinge+ lifts that limit and shows you everyone who has liked you at once, rather than one at a time; it also lets you undo a skip as often as you like and adds more ways to sort and filter. HingeX includes all of that, plus Priority Likes, which stay at the top of the other person’s list for a week, and more visibility for your profile.

Count how often you run out, and be honest about what you spent the likes on. If the limit rarely bites, a subscription buys little. HingeX, like Tinder Platinum, mostly sells being seen sooner, which a better first photo or a sharper prompt answer can also do. And if the person you keep wishing you could like is someone you already know, no tier will put them in your feed; on IF, where Likes, matching and chat cost nothing, a Like or an IF can reach them directly.

Is Bumble Premium worth it?

It depends on how many likes you already get. As of October 2026, Bumble’s help centre lists three tiers. Bumble Boost, the entry tier, adds unlimited swipes, a weekly SuperSwipe and Spotlight allowance, Extend, which gives a match 72 more hours, Rematch, which revives one that expired, and unlimited Backtrack, to undo a left swipe. Premium adds Liked You, the list of people who have already liked you (long known as the Beeline), advanced filters, Travel Mode and Incognito Mode. Premium+ adds photo insights, faster delivery of your likes and priority placement.

For many people Liked You is the main draw, and it matters most if you already receive plenty of likes, since it turns an evening of swiping into a shortlist. Extend matters only if your matches keep running out of time before anyone writes.

There is one more thing to weigh. Bumble’s founder, Whitney Wolfe Herd, who is also its chief executive, announced in May 2026 that Bumble would drop the swipe, and by October 2026 the swipe-free app had slipped to early 2027, so nobody outside Bumble yet knows how its paid tiers will be packaged afterwards. On IF, the basics sit outside any paywall: Likes, matching and chat are free, as are receiving and revealing an IF, so you can date there first and decide later whether a plan adds anything you want.

Grindr XTRA vs Unlimited: comfort or privacy

As of September 2026, Grindr sells two subscriptions, XTRA and Unlimited, alongside one-off Boosts. XTRA is the cheaper of the two, and the store listing shows what each costs where you live.

  • XTRA: removes third-party ads, shows you many more of the nearest profiles in the grid, and adds extras such as read receipts and saved phrases.
  • Unlimited: everything in XTRA, with an unlimited grid, the full Viewed Me list of everyone who has looked at your profile, Incognito, which hides you from the grid while you browse, the ability to unsend messages, and unlimited expiring photos.

For many people XTRA is a comfort upgrade: fewer ads, more people. Unlimited is different, because some of what it sells is privacy. For someone who is not out at work or at home, or who lives where being seen on a queer app carries real risk, privacy is the feature that matters most, wherever they date. On Grindr, Incognito and unsending sit in Unlimited. On IF, switching off Discoverable in Search is free, so nobody can find you by your email, phone or handle, and Incognito, which takes you out of Swipe, comes with IFinity. Our guide to LGBTQ+ dating apps covers the wider choice, and how to stay safe on each.

Pay for a problem, not a promise

Let the free version tell you what you need before you spend anything.

  1. Use one app’s free version for two weeks, with a finished profile: several clear, recent photos and prompts that sound like you.
  2. Notice which limit you actually hit. Do you run out of likes? Do likes arrive that you cannot see? Do matches go nowhere, or hardly arrive at all? Or is the person you want not on the deck at all?
  3. Match the limit to the cheapest tier that removes it: a volume tier for running out of likes, an information tier for likes you cannot see. Hardly any matches calls for a better profile first, not a visibility tier, and wanting one particular person calls for saying so, not for more swipes.
  4. Buy one month, not six. Set a reminder a few days before it renews.
  5. Judge the month by conversations and dates, not by matches or notifications. If nothing changed, cancel without guilt.

Skip premium altogether if money is tight, or if you are paying mainly to feel busy. Pay for one app at a time, for only as long as it earns it, and if you would rather not pay at all, our guide to the best free dating apps sets out what each one genuinely includes.

Cancelling without surprises

Subscriptions bought on your phone renew automatically, and deleting the app does not cancel them; that is true of every app here, ours included. Cancel through the store you paid with: your Apple account’s subscription settings on an iPhone, the Play Store’s subscriptions list on Android, or your account settings on the app’s website if you subscribed there. Cancelling normally stops the next renewal, so you keep what you paid for until the period ends.

Where IF fits: what costs nothing

Look down the paywalls above and most of what is for sale is more of the same: more likes, more swipes, more visibility among strangers. None of it buys the thing those apps were never designed for. They work within narrow rules — strangers in a deck, a yes or no on each — and have not caught up with how much it now matters to be honest about what you feel. IF is the dating app built around that honesty. It lets you tell anyone how you feel, without judgement, whether they are single or taken and whether you are, while keeping the relationships people already have safe.

The core of it costs nothing:

  • Likes, matches and chat with singles, through the deck or through Search.
  • Looking someone up by the email address, number or Instagram handle they gave you, without them being told.
  • Receiving an IF, and revealing it when the time comes.
  • Switching off Discoverable in Search, so nobody finds you by your details.
  • Your first IF, sealed and private, in up to 250 characters: for someone who is taken, for when you are, or for someone not on IF yet.

That last one is where IF parts company with every tier above. While either of you is in a relationship, nothing can open until you are both single, so an IF never competes with anyone’s relationship. What no price can change is that cheating is wrong, and so is lying about it; an IF is neither. It is also private, so whether you ever mention it is up to you. The person you send it to may be told an IF is waiting, not who sent it or what it says, and the way an IF is revealed depends on which of you becomes single. If they are not on IF yet, an email address brings one short invitation, while a number or a handle sends nothing at all.

Paid plans add extras, set out on the membership page, but you never have to pay to say the thing that matters. No upgrade screen sells that much freedom to find the person you should be with.

Questions people ask

How much do dating apps cost?

It depends on where you live, which tier you choose and how long you sign up for. All four big apps are free to join, and each paid tier costs more than the one below. For your own figure, check the in-app prices on the store listing, then the app’s upgrade screen. On IF, Likes, chat and your first IF cost nothing, and the paid plans are optional extras.

Which dating app is cheapest?

All the big apps are free to download, match and message, so the cheapest option is often the free version used well; among paid tiers, the entry tier on a longer plan usually costs least per month. On IF, you can Like, match and chat without paying, and telling the one person on your mind how you feel costs nothing either, because your first IF is free.

Does paying for a dating app get you more matches?

It can put you in front of more people and show you who has already liked you. It cannot make anyone like you back. If you are getting few matches on the free version, your photos and prompts are the better place to start. And if the person you want is someone you already know, no tier will reach them, but on IF a Like, or an IF, can say it directly.

Can you get a refund on a dating app subscription?

Sometimes. Apple handles refunds under its own policy, so ask Apple. If you paid through Google, start with Google’s refund request, which is open only for a short time after purchase; after that, ask the app’s own support team. Easier still: buy a month at a time and cancel before it renews.

Is it worth paying for more than one dating app?

Rarely. Two paid apps usually means twice the cost and half the attention for each. And since IF’s Likes, matches and chats are free, as is your first IF, you can meet singles there and say what you feel to someone you already know without a subscription anywhere.

Spend on the one limit that is really in your way, and nothing more. And if what stands between you and someone is timing rather than a paywall, no subscription will fix it. An IF might: write it once, at no cost, and let it wait, sealed, until you are both single.