What IF they
knew how you felt?
Send a secret message to someone you can't stop thinking about. They'll only see it IF the time is ever right — and only if you still want them to.
How IF works
Send an IF
Write a heartfelt message to someone you have feelings for. It stays completely hidden and anonymous.
Wait for the moment
IF the time is ever right, you'll be notified. You'll have 24 hours to approve the reveal or quietly withdraw.
Begin the story
Once approved, they see your message and profile. If they accept — the conversation begins.
Completely anonymous
Your identity is never revealed unless you choose to.
Built for timing
All feelings deserve a chance. IF holds your message on trust for IF the right moment ever comes — without crossing any lines.
Always your choice
You can withdraw your IF at any time before it reveals. Nothing happens without your approval.
No awkward moments
Your message is held in complete confidence. If the timing never comes, it stays hidden — quietly, always.
Start free. Upgrade when you're ready.
Everything you need to send your first IF is free. Upgrade to IF for more reach and visibility, or IFinity to go unlimited — with a 7-day free trial.
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FAQ
Will they ever know it was me?
Not unless you choose to reveal yourself. Your IF stays completely anonymous. The person only learns who sent it after the timing is right and you approve the reveal. If you never approve, they never know.
Is IF free?
Yes. Sending your first IF, receiving and revealing IFs, sending Likes to singles, and chatting with your connections are all free. Upgrading to IF or IFinity unlocks more IFs, enhanced visibility, and expanded preferences, with a 7-day free trial.
How does an IF actually work?
You write a private message to someone you have feelings for and send it as an IF. It stays hidden and anonymous. IF the timing is ever right, you're notified and given 24 hours to approve the reveal or quietly withdraw. Once approved, they see your message and profile — and if they accept, the conversation begins.
What if the person I like is already in a relationship?
That's exactly what IF is built for. You can send an IF to someone who isn't available right now. It waits, completely hidden, and only surfaces IF they ever become single — giving real feelings a chance they'd never otherwise get.
What if they never become single — does my message just sit there forever?
It stays private and hidden, always. If the right moment never comes, your IF is never revealed and they never know it existed. Nothing ever happens without the timing being right and your approval.
Can I take it back?
Anytime before it's revealed. You're always in control — withdraw your IF whenever you like and it disappears as though it was never sent.
Get IF on your phone
Available on iOS and Android. Take your IFs with you wherever you go.
Ready to send your first IF?
Some feelings deserve a chance. Start your story — no credit card required.